You are excited about your new business venture. So, it’s only natural that you will want to tell people about it. But then you run across that one person who tells you, “Aww you said that before what happened to that other business you were in.”
Right here is where a lot of people get crushed with self-doubt. People may doubt you but never doubt yourself. Understand that success is a process.
There is an old saying that goes like this, “The dictionary is the only place where success comes before work.” You have to put int the work before you can ever get to success. And rest assured there are going to be some failures along the way before success comes.
Therefore, what people say or what has ever happened in the past is irrelevant. That is the PAST and this is NOW. Other people can get confused between the two, just you don’t get confused.
This Will Kill Your Dreams
Because self-doubt is a dream killer! To many people let self-doubt creep in after something has failed. Maybe you did a campaign and you didn’t get the conversions you hoped.
You may start to wonder is this really for you. As an affiliate marketer when it comes to marketing you must test and retest, A/B test or whatever test time and time again.
Also understand that there is a learning curve with everything you do. You understood that when you got your first job. You understood that when you first got married or raising your first child.
Yet for the life of me I can’t understand why you think building a successful business should just happen overnight. You should be able to make a million dollars in a day or two. It just doesn’t work that way.
Don’t Get Comfortable In Your Routine
Having a routine is good, but when you’ve been doing something for a while complacency can set in. You get comfortable with the way things are. You no longer push yourself.
The affiliate marketer should always be in a state of uncomfortableness. You should never be in a place where you are satisfied. When you become satisfied progress stops.
You should always be stepping outside of your comfort zone. That is where the winning is. That’s where you will find success.
Say to yourself every day am I getting to comfortable. Make a plan to do something different. Maybe it could be getting up an hour earlier. Or approaching a stranger and striking up a conversation with them.
Whatever it is if you get in the habit of doing something different or trying new things at the end of a year you will be surprised at your growth.
This Is Where We Fight This Is Where They Die!
The above statement is a line out of the movie 300 where King Leonidas tells that to his men before they fight Xerxes’s army. That is what you have to say when the enemies try to rise that would take you off your game plan.
Enemies that could stop you cold like:
- Low Self-esteem
You have to fight! If you’re not where you want to be you need to be hustling. Your anthem should be, “I will not stop!” “I will fight and fight until I conquer!”
There is nothing you can’t achieve. The clock is ticking are you becoming the person you want to be it’s now or never. Force your brain to operate on a level you’re not use too.
Challenge Yourself to Go Beyond The Norm
All the talk you hear where people doubt you that should drive you. Prove them wrong! Who are they to say what you can and cannot do?
What you are capable of you have yet to scratch the surface. You have no idea until you start trying hard. But you will not find toughness in a comfortable environment.
For you will have disappointments that is life. You will fail. But fail your way to greatness. Ingrain the hard times in your soul to keep you motivated.
The media loves to hail someone as an overnight success. And they leave out the 5, 10, 20 years of blood, sweat and tears. Yes, it looks easy now, because they’ve been through the fire.
Preparation is where character is made. Most people will not take the dangerous path they will only take the safe path. Most people don’t know what it’s like to really go for something.
Remind The World Just Who You Are
You were born with a purpose. Go for what is yours in the universe and let no one or no thing stop you. Just decide. Like most people you will not live in mediocrity.
Time to focus. Time to take it to another level. You must give it all you’ve got. Give more and you get more. You cannot be denied. You will not lose.
Discipline is essential for success. The only thing that matters is action work on yourself. Because some people will want you to fail. Because if you succeed then they have no excuse.
You must be willing to do whatever it takes. Be the director of your life. You set the scene. Through all the ups and down, disappointments and failures you still win.
Nothing in life is worthwhile unless you take risks. What are you going to do with what you have? You are either gaining ground or you are losing ground.
You get one shot at this gig called life, don’t waste it. Take control! Don’t be afraid to think outside the box. Envision a greater future. Own your life.
The place in life where you find yourself now does not define you. Don’t let your past shackle your future. To become great, you must think great thoughts.
Thoughts are power, power becomes action, action becomes results and results become success. Do something bold.
In summing up, your life will be what YOU make it. If you take other people’s negativity to heart you will lose. But if you use it as fuel to drive you forward you will win.
Check your enemies and fight the good fight. You have no idea of what you are truly capable of until you really try. Live a life of purpose.
Don’t get comfortable live for uneasy there is growth in that. Don’t be afraid change something or try something new.
Get focused and take it to another level. Hustle! Don’t be like everyone else set yourself apart. Embrace the things that make you unique.
People may doubt you but never doubt yourself. Losers don’t have haters only winners do.